It is not our fault that sex is so often unsatisfying, uncomfortable or even painful. Many of us simply turn away from what we think is an optional extra in life, telling ourselves, our friends and our partners that we are too old, too busy or too something else to “bother with all that nonsense”.

The problem is, it isn’t nonsense. Women are deeply sexual beings, rejecting sex is a rejection of the intimacy, connection and heady biochemicals that make our lives joyous. And rejecting sex inside a relationship is almost always experienced as a rejection by our partner, who’s pain then locks horns with our pain and our relationship, rather than being a place of safety and intimacy becomes another source of stress, loneliness and unhappiness.

Whilst it may not be our fault, we can choose to take responsibility. We can take the reins and make sex a different experience for ourselves, our partners and our relationships. And it’s way easier than you may think.

What if I were to tell you that everything you desire most in life, all the biggies (happiness, joy, freedom, abandonment, pleasure, deep love), are locked inside a box or a secret garden, right here, under your nose, and all you need is the key? 

What if I were to tell you that I can show you the key with which I unlocked my life’s true potential? Maybe you have voices in your head that are telling you that opening the lid of the box or peaking through the gate into the garden is dangerous and forbidden? I want to reassure you that it is safe, you ARE allowed to do this and if you are here, it is probably time.